We’re all about relationships here at UBA. But the association doesn’t work if it’s only the UBA staff praying for churches and checking in on pastors and staff to see how it’s going—which of course we’re going to continue to do.
The association doesn’t work if pastors don’t know each other well enough to be able to care for one another and initiate partnerships on their own. This kind of relationship happens in spaces where pastors and leaders get to know each other and are truly known.
So we’re polling our pastors to see if they have these relationships with one another. We want to know how connected you are and help you get connected. Because ministry is hard work, and we’re always better together.
Ministry is hard, and so is life in general. Trenton Anthony shows us how and why to make and keep friends.
Certain pressures accompany the role of pastoral ministry. If pastors don't have a way to relieve that pressure, their world can easily become dark, lonely, and isolated. It's similar to the one in the pool with their eyes closed calling out “Marco!" But they find no one to respond.
Let's push past the small talk and discuss a common problem in many of our churches. As a minister's wife, it can be very lonely and hard to build true friendships with people inside the church. However, the church community shouldn't leave anyone isolated—especially not its leaders and their families.
Marcos (8:34) relata la enseñanza más aguda de Jesús sobre la naturaleza del discipulado.
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Mark (8:34) recounts Jesus' most insightful teaching on the nature of discipleship.
Las redes sociales se jactan de poder enlazar una red de amistades, pero la realidad es que la gran mayoría de los usuarios solo logran tener muchos conocidos, pero muy pocos amigos. Por otro lado, para los pastores y ministros cristianos, debido a las demandas del ministerio, desarrollar amistades profundas se complica. La amistad es una relación de ecuanimidad y equidad que necesita ser cultivada todos los días.
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While social networks boast of being able to link a network of friends, the reality is that the vast majority of users only manage to have acquaintances, but very few friends. Often for pastors and Christian ministers, the demands of the ministry make it very complicated to develop truly deep friendships. Friendship is a relationship of balance and equity that needs to be cultivated every day.
Take this 3-minute survey to help us know who you’re connected to and how to keep you from
Here’s some good news to someone feeling weary in ministry today.
We love our association of churches, but don’t just take our word for it. Listen as Pastor Parris Patrick highlights the benefit of working together with others and the real and deep pastor-to-pastor friendships he's developed within the Union Baptist Association.
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